DEAR HUSBAND,
There is no doubt that you are the leader of the home. Allah has made you the head because of your power of logic which is stronger than that of your wives, you are regarded as the guardian of your family. You are fully in charge. Yes you are the leader and your final say […]
WHY DO KIDS LIE?
The first answer to this question is: “How did you react the last time they told you the truth?” How did you react the last time your child was truthful about a mistake? Were you furious? Did you shame them? Think about it, will anyone tell you the truth if they get the above response? […]
THE 15TH OF SHA’BAAN
Allah has given superiority to some days and nights over the others; this is a mercy from Allah for Muslims to engage more in good deeds and take benefit of these days/nights. Among the nights which narrations have proven to be a magnificent night is the night of the 15th of Sha’baan. Unequivocally, there are […]
ROBBERY MARRIAGE
Nikaah mut’ah is a temporary stipulated marriage where the time span may be declared during the time of aqd; that is when a man gives out his daughter for the period of a month or a year or 6 months, for a known stipulated time. Mahr will be involved and all conditions may be fulfilled. […]
ETIQUETTES OF RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A MALE TEACHER AND HIS FEMALE STUDENTS
Basically, a male teacher should be a teacher for male students, while a female teacher should teach female students; not for any other reason but because of the fitnah that may come as a result of such ‘intermingling’. Yes, the Prophet’s wife – Aa’ishah radiya Allahu anhaa was a teacher to some sahaabah of the […]
CONSEQUENCES OF IGNORANCE IN MARITAL TRUST AND SUBMISSION: A FOCUS ON MUSLIMAHS’
In Suuratu Al Imraan verse 30, Allah says: [On the Day when every soul will be confronted with all the good it has done and all the evil it has done, it will wish there were a great distance between it and its evil. But Allah cautions you (to remember) Himself. And Allah is full […]
COVID-19 : Islamic Healing Therapy
A few days back, someone sent me his little personal research by studying the behavior and properties of the Coronavirus and uses of certain herbs. I agreed with the research. Likewise telling myself, just because it hasn’t been proven scientifically doesn’t mean it can’t work. All in the name of science, we have “totally” lost […]
A BROKEN HEART 💔
Indeed getting over a lost love is quite a hardship and one can be very confused, emotional and in such pain that they are unable to rationalise the situation without some form of inner or outside help. In cases of heart broken, some tell the person to “just get over it” etc and is treated […]
DOGMATISM (At-Taqleed)
In Qur’an chapter 3 verse 104, Allah said:“وَلْتَكُن مِّنكُمْ أُمَّةٌ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى الْخَيْرِ وَيَأْمُرُونَ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَيَنْهَوْنَ عَنِ الْمُنكَرِ ۚ وَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْمُفْلِحُونَ” In this verse, Allah established the essence of jamaa’ah which He regarded as Ummah. Once two or more people come together to achieve a certain goal, they all belong to an organization. I […]