2: Physical Compatibility
If you prefer a tall man with six-pack, go for him. If you want a lady with big bosom or butt, search for her. Don’t try to be forming superman piety. As long as you know that these features may not last forever; but who says you shouldn’t enjoy it while it lasts?
If his appearance is not charming to you, don’t start the relationship. If she dresses shabby out of Islamic vogue, opt for someone else.
Some find certain complexion attractive, so be it. Don’t settle for a black skin lady when you know your spec is a light skin girl, after then finding a bleaching cream for her or complaining of her skin color. If you detest a pot belly partner, don’t take one.
Physical compatibility includes consideration of his/her physical fitness in term of how often he/she falls sick.
Physically compatibility also includes physical attraction to one another. And this is necessary for a relationship to take hold and be maintained. You need to be attracted to your partner, and certainly not be repulsed. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and physical compatibility is clearly based on a subjective set of preferences. Nevertheless it is an important component in a relationship………..
Page 5, “Towards the Aversion of Obscurities in Nikaah by Ibn Taofeeq Abdul Azeez”
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Ustadh, I beg, this one is something else o. How possible can a brother be watching out for things like boobs etc in ladies. Will that not be an open invitation to lewdnes and an intrusion into the privacy of the lady. I don’t think its necessary a Muslim should be looking for perfection in all aspects of life. If one is not satisfied in one area, definitely, satisfaction would come in other areas provided the intention for marriage is noble ab initio. Aesthetic values will not last because they are not under the control of the possessors, but good morals would .What I think should be emphasized is contentment in marriage, not fantasy ..